JAN
Started off in a very pathetic way.
Had problems regarding my marriage intially.
Girl's parents were not at all agreeing with our proposal.
31 december I got the horoscopes confirmed from the pandit from Uttaradi Mutt.
Mailed the matched horoscope to the girl's parents.
Few days later my parents called her parents.
Her dad said "Don't you have manners.
Why are you troubling us. Few days back your son sent us a letter now you are sending it. Shall I call police".
Things ended there temporarily or permanently I do not know.
I was sad depressed because of this.
My parents are asking me not to speak to her.
She too is sad for her dad's behavior.
Still we are meeting.
FEB
My grand parents met with an accident.
Grand mother and grand father were in kitchen.
Gas was leaking.
My grand father lit Deepam and the room caught fire.
Both were severly burnt.
Grand mother suffered burn injuries as she was wearing a polyester sari.
Sari stuck to her body when it caught fire.
Grand father immediately went to switch off regulator and suffered the burns.
While returning back, few saris fell on him which had already caught fire.
He then went to bathroom and took bath in cold water. wiping out the burnt skin.
Grand mother came to hall. Fire was over by now.
Grand father with great difficulty called my aunt.
Aunt came and came along the Ambulance+ police + photographers.
It was in news the next day. Old couple were at home.
When a gas leak caught fire.
They were shifted to civil hospital where in first aid was done and were asked to be sent to SDM oR KMC.
My uncle and aunt both some how convinced the hospital that they will take them to SDM and took to some private hospital.
This hospital was attended by a known person to them. He is a renowned plastic surgeon.
Grand mother and father on drips and being medicated.
My mother called me up and informed me about all this. She told me not to come there as situation was under control.
She was very sad. Told me that Ajji was too much injured and Ajja has a burnt face but is recovering well.
Ajji is drinking tea, Docs struggled to find a vein to connect the saline.. As most part was burnt.
Repeatedly i asked her and she replied the same. Do not come now.
Next day I am in office where in I get a message from mom "Ajji gone".
I went crazy. Thinking what just happened.
I rush in bus back to home.
I reach hospital and I see Ajja whole body burnt and struggling.
Poor old man.. I am feeling sad to type this...
Will type some other time
I went to Dharwar next week where in the funeral ceremonies were going on.
Dharmodaka was done for my grand ma first.
Here one pinda is kept where in a crow is expected to eat it.
Many crows were there on the ground. But none of them came on top of the cemented cliff to eat the pinda.
Twice the crow came and flew away. All were disappointed and crying.
Everyone was prayed and expressed to fulfill last wish of my grand mother.
My mom wished that my grand mother should be roborn as daughter to my moushi.
I prayed for her soul.
Really sad to see people crying.
Then all of a sudden a crow comes and eats it.
We all took bath and did puja and came back home to take bath again.
2 days later, It was my grand father's dharmodaka.
This time there were no crows.
Everybody was waiting for the same.
Looking at the sky for where in you can see only the eagles.
My Uncle prayed that he would ful fill the wish of my grand father by returning the money taken from my grandfather's brother.
All of a sudden from no where, crow comes and eats pinda.
In a sigh of relief we take bath and go back home.
My mother was hurt in a small incident.
A cooker kept over lpg stove blasted.
All rice spilled over on the ground and the roof.
The cooker flew with the blast and fell on the stove breaking the burner.
Its handle broke and fell on my mom's head. she suffered minor burn due to the steam which was out of the cooker.
She did not tell me about this. I only came to know about it when i went there.
February is ending, 2012 leap month is ending, today is the last day.
Things are kind of settled now. I'm returning back to original.
Looking forward for good days ahead.
I have my promotion exam for the post Associate consultant on last week of March, Assignments with Manipal university are pending followed by semester exams in April.
Hectic schedule.
There is Venkat Reddy's marriage in March and Ravi shankar's marriage in April, not sure what I would be able to attend.
APRIL
Started off in a very pathetic way.
Had problems regarding my marriage intially.
Girl's parents were not at all agreeing with our proposal.
31 december I got the horoscopes confirmed from the pandit from Uttaradi Mutt.
Mailed the matched horoscope to the girl's parents.
Few days later my parents called her parents.
Her dad said "Don't you have manners.
Why are you troubling us. Few days back your son sent us a letter now you are sending it. Shall I call police".
Things ended there temporarily or permanently I do not know.
I was sad depressed because of this.
My parents are asking me not to speak to her.
She too is sad for her dad's behavior.
Still we are meeting.
FEB
My grand parents met with an accident.
Grand mother and grand father were in kitchen.
Gas was leaking.
My grand father lit Deepam and the room caught fire.
Both were severly burnt.
Grand mother suffered burn injuries as she was wearing a polyester sari.
Sari stuck to her body when it caught fire.
Grand father immediately went to switch off regulator and suffered the burns.
While returning back, few saris fell on him which had already caught fire.
He then went to bathroom and took bath in cold water. wiping out the burnt skin.
Grand mother came to hall. Fire was over by now.
Grand father with great difficulty called my aunt.
Aunt came and came along the Ambulance+ police + photographers.
It was in news the next day. Old couple were at home.
When a gas leak caught fire.
They were shifted to civil hospital where in first aid was done and were asked to be sent to SDM oR KMC.
My uncle and aunt both some how convinced the hospital that they will take them to SDM and took to some private hospital.
This hospital was attended by a known person to them. He is a renowned plastic surgeon.
Grand mother and father on drips and being medicated.
My mother called me up and informed me about all this. She told me not to come there as situation was under control.
She was very sad. Told me that Ajji was too much injured and Ajja has a burnt face but is recovering well.
Ajji is drinking tea, Docs struggled to find a vein to connect the saline.. As most part was burnt.
Repeatedly i asked her and she replied the same. Do not come now.
Next day I am in office where in I get a message from mom "Ajji gone".
I went crazy. Thinking what just happened.
I rush in bus back to home.
I reach hospital and I see Ajja whole body burnt and struggling.
Poor old man.. I am feeling sad to type this...
Will type some other time
I went to Dharwar next week where in the funeral ceremonies were going on.
Dharmodaka was done for my grand ma first.
Here one pinda is kept where in a crow is expected to eat it.
Many crows were there on the ground. But none of them came on top of the cemented cliff to eat the pinda.
Twice the crow came and flew away. All were disappointed and crying.
Everyone was prayed and expressed to fulfill last wish of my grand mother.
My mom wished that my grand mother should be roborn as daughter to my moushi.
I prayed for her soul.
Really sad to see people crying.
Then all of a sudden a crow comes and eats it.
We all took bath and did puja and came back home to take bath again.
2 days later, It was my grand father's dharmodaka.
This time there were no crows.
Everybody was waiting for the same.
Looking at the sky for where in you can see only the eagles.
My Uncle prayed that he would ful fill the wish of my grand father by returning the money taken from my grandfather's brother.
All of a sudden from no where, crow comes and eats pinda.
In a sigh of relief we take bath and go back home.
My mother was hurt in a small incident.
A cooker kept over lpg stove blasted.
All rice spilled over on the ground and the roof.
The cooker flew with the blast and fell on the stove breaking the burner.
Its handle broke and fell on my mom's head. she suffered minor burn due to the steam which was out of the cooker.
She did not tell me about this. I only came to know about it when i went there.
February is ending, 2012 leap month is ending, today is the last day.
Things are kind of settled now. I'm returning back to original.
Looking forward for good days ahead.
I have my promotion exam for the post Associate consultant on last week of March, Assignments with Manipal university are pending followed by semester exams in April.
Hectic schedule.
There is Venkat Reddy's marriage in March and Ravi shankar's marriage in April, not sure what I would be able to attend.
APRIL
